When someone dies without a valid will, the law calls it dying "intestate." In New Jersey, the state's intestacy statutes — not your personal wishes — decide who receives your property. Many people are surprised to learn just how different that outcome can be from what they would have chosen.
How New Jersey decides who inherits
New Jersey's intestacy rules follow a fixed order based on family relationships. In general terms:
- Spouse and shared children only. If all of your children are also your spouse's children, your surviving spouse generally inherits the entire estate.
- Spouse and children from another relationship. Your spouse receives a defined share, and the remainder is divided among your children. The exact split depends on the family structure.
- No spouse, but children. Your children inherit in equal shares.
- No spouse or children. The estate passes to your parents, then to siblings, and outward to more distant relatives.
- No relatives at all. In rare cases, the property can ultimately pass to the State of New Jersey.
What intestacy does not account for
Intestacy law applies a one-size formula. It does not account for:
- Unmarried partners, stepchildren you never adopted, or close friends.
- Charities or causes you care about.
- A child with special needs who could lose public benefits from an outright inheritance.
- Your preferences about who should manage the estate or raise your minor children.
Other consequences of having no will
Dying intestate affects more than the distribution list. Without a will:
- The court appoints the administrator. You lose the chance to name the person you trust to settle your affairs.
- Guardianship of minor children is decided by the court rather than by your nomination.
- The process can take longer and create friction among surviving family members.
How a simple estate plan helps
A will lets you name your beneficiaries, choose an executor, and nominate a guardian for your children. Paired with tools such as a durable power of attorney and an advance health care directive, a basic plan can spare your family confusion and delay during an already difficult time. Updating beneficiary designations on accounts and reviewing how your home is titled are part of the same conversation.
Estate planning is not only for large estates. If you own a home in New Jersey, have minor children, or simply want a say in what happens, a will is worth having.
If you would like to talk through your options, our estate planning and probate attorneys offer a free, no-obligation consultation. Reach out and we will listen and explain how an estate plan could work for your family.
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